Friday, April 30, 2010

Dating advice in need for a teen like me?

theres this girl that i like but she is two years younger than me. we both go to the same high school in florida. she is more a sort of a shy girl toward others but outgoing also. i like her persona. i like her but i don't know if she likes me. i'm afraid to ask because i don't know how she would react to it. she somewhat weird but i can handle it. i would like to know what signs should i look that she does that means that she likes me too.Dating advice in need for a teen like me?
does she smile and laugh at everything funny you do? does she smile and look at you often, or do you catch her doing it?? does she twirl her hair and stand close to you or hit you playfully????? there ya go.Dating advice in need for a teen like me?
ok well does she hang out w/ u ?does she smile alot when your around ?does she leave her friends just to be w/ u ?oh and ask her out and another thing just be like hey want to play truth or dare and ask her do u like anyone and who is it
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  • Is this a good idea for a teen novel I'm thinking about writing? More ideas/advice?

    It's written in first person, from two point of views, a boy %26amp; a girl. It starts with the girl's point of view when she meets the boy, then the boy's point of view when he meets the girl. The book can continue like that with different events happening %26amp; both their point of views. Some ideas they don't share with each other, making things confusing.





    For example, she really likes him, but she thinks he's just a player so she ignores him. Then the reader learns that he hates how people think he's a player because he really isn't %26amp; he thinks he loves the girl. The book will show the reader how the boy %26amp; girl feel about themselves %26amp; about eachother, without the other person nessecarily knowing.





    It might end sadly, with both of them telling eachother that they should break up. But in the book each point of view says they still love the other %26amp; don't want to break up. The reader knows this, but since the boy %26amp; girl don't tell eachother, neither of them know how the other feels





    Ideas?Is this a good idea for a teen novel I'm thinking about writing? More ideas/advice?
    Sounds relatively interesting. I like the way it sound and suggest that you make your lesson obvious. That is that you should always express your feelings if you love someone bacause you may lose them. Let me know what you decide to do with it.Is this a good idea for a teen novel I'm thinking about writing? More ideas/advice?
    Yea, it's a lot like ';Flipped';
    it seems to be a great idea!
    It sounds exactly the same as a book called Flipped. Read it and you'll see.

    I need advice or knowledge for a teen court date...?

    i am going to teen court tomorrow because i was out past curfew and lied about my name...


    has either happened to you and do you have to do community service or pay a fine?I need advice or knowledge for a teen court date...?
    This has not happened to me, but the best thing to do is to admit you lied and ask for the court to be merciful. Also emphasize if you have not had any prior violations. Your sentence depends on what state and city you live in. Generally I think identity theft is very serious, and lying about your name can be considered identity theft in some places.

    Am I on my way to a six pack? Can you give advice specialized for a teen track runner?

    These are the exercises I, a 15 year old male with quite a bit of baby fat, do six days a week, sometimes twice a day:


    100 sit ups


    50 sit ups with legs resting towards right


    50 sit ups with legs resting towards left


    50 leg ups


    50 sit ups with alternating motions of hands moving within legs and then spread out besides legs (in and and out movements)


    50 arm crossing movements with legs up, touching from leg to leg


    50 hand-to-feet movements up and down,


    50 bicycles,


    50 sit ups with knees down and body spread out,


    one plank for three minutes,


    and then finally I might do supermans from 30sec to a minute.





    These ab exercises were reccomended by one of my track coaches, and I do them after practice with the team. I need advice on getting a good core, because a strong core will enable me to run faster. Please help.





    Another one of my concerns: one, my diet. It's the holidays, and everyone knows it's hard to resist mom's homeade cookies. I just pigged out on 4 chocolate-chip cookies and one or two chocolate covered cherries. Is this going to hurt me badly? What are the foods that I should be eating? I try to eat fruits such as bananas.





    What are the health benefits of lettuce? I heard that it is 75% water. Is it really that beneficiary to running faster? I always avoid it when making a chicken sandwhich.





    Will carrots help on my quest to run faster? In school, the steamed carrots always look DISGUSTING, so I try to force myself to eat them, but I just can't do it. Is this bad? I try to eat cold cut carrots because they are a lot more tastier. Is there really a difference in the nutritional value of steamed carrots and baby carrots?





    How can I stop myself from overeating? I know about water....





    And finally, since it's vacation, what do I do immediately following ab workouts? Today, right after I did them, I sat on the couch. I felt like it was the wrong thing to do. Is there something you should do right after doing ab exercises?





    Ya know how if you pull on your ear lobe for ten years, it will get reaaaaly stretchy? Well, if you kinda push out your stomach making yourself look like a pregnant woman, (ya, I know, it's kind of demented, but sometimes entertainers might do it to make others laugh) will your skin get stretched out within a couple of years, along with internal muscle damage possibly? Just curious.





    Well, thank you for your time, I appreciate anyone who can answer my question COMPLETELY without making me sound stupid, like I have bigorexia or something.Am I on my way to a six pack? Can you give advice specialized for a teen track runner?
    Well i will try to answer this the best i can since no one has posted anything for 10 hours. lol. And No eating Cookies or Chocolate Covered Cherries will not hurt you, Why?? because it is just one time you ate them. Meaning 1 day, now if you ate them day after day, then you would start seeing the wrong results. But it is not wrong to eat cookies or anything.





    The Foods you should be Eating are foods with Protein if your a Sprinter or Distance Runner.Eat Lots of Foods with Carbohydrates if your a Sprinter and if your a distance runner, Eat some carbohydrates but not very much. You should be eating Banana's, Strawberries, Cherries, Blueberries, Apples, Carrots, Pretty much anything healthy because all of them have effects on your performance..But not like TONS of them..Banana's are for Iron, which can give you a lot of energy, and Cherries %26amp; Strawberries can reduce Muscle Soreness and Speed up your recovery, allowing you to train again faster after a hard workout the day before..Carrots, idk what they do for you though.





    Lettuce idk why you would eat lettuce when you can just drink water, lol. I dont think there is really any benefit there, but i eat it with salads. I dont think there is a difference between steamed and cold carrots because, its the same carrot, just heated up..and some people like them better hot. Really its just a matter of which you like better.





    To stop overeating, Eat 5-6 meals a day, Like this:


    Breakfast, Snack, Lunch, Snack, Dinner, ( Maybe a Snack If your really hungry)





    Me, i am 16 and I am sprinter, Thats what i do..I run normally twice a day and my 2nd run is at night, after dinner, and sometimes i will have a snack after i run to replace any energy that was lost. and for A Faster Recovery.





    After i do Ab exercises I do the same thing, lay on the coach for a minute, because that is like a reward you know. No it is not a bad thing because you dont want to over train. No i dont think your stomach would stretch your stomach out, because if you dont have much fat, it wont stretch. The only way your stomach would stretch would be if it would be stuck out for 9 years and when you pulled back in your stomach would be stretched like the people who have Big round earrings and when they take them out you can stick your finger through, it is because it has been stuck that way for however long.





    I hope this has helped you, if you have any further Questions Email me at hill.warrior@yahoo.comAm I on my way to a six pack? Can you give advice specialized for a teen track runner?
    You seem like you're going on the right path. Just don't over do it or you'll be regretting it for the rest of your life

    Why is it when a pregnant teen asks for advice the get discriminated against?

    Like if a pregnant teen asks for advice all she ever gets is the response that ';she is a s*** or close your legs'; and never gets the advice she has so rightfully asked for....and why is it people say to get an abortion then if a teen asks how much it is or how old do you have to be they get yelled at about that too.....i just dont understand it.....i am a pregnant teen and barely ever get the advice that i ask for......i always get called a s*** or wh*** and i really am not....i have only had sex with one guy and that guy is my fiance......so why do people do that?Why is it when a pregnant teen asks for advice the get discriminated against?
    because ppl who have a problem with it suck.Why is it when a pregnant teen asks for advice the get discriminated against?
    It happens because these teens mention their age. When I ask a question, I don't mention that Im a 29 year old first time mother. Why is age relevant? Stop mentioning it and you wont have that problem. People are always going to say that a 14 year pregnant girl is a sl*t.
    They thought they're mature enough, but actually they're not. So better give them advice rather than ignore or discriminate pregnant teens.
    honestly it is because they put there age on everything. if she explained her situation and left her age out of it then nothing would be said about it. I am 19 and I have never put my age on a question and no one has ever said anything about it.
    I think that is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what people should be saying. If a teen is pregnant %26amp; asking for help/advice, why in the world wouldn't you want to give it to her? Don't punish her %26amp; her baby just because she is young! People are so quick to put a pregnant teen down, but what makes them so great? When they ask for help, you act like you are so much ';greater than thou';.. but you're WORSE for not helping! If you don't have something to say that will actually help a pregnant teen, don't even bother opening the question! --- I suppose that I didn't answer anything, just ranted a bit. Heheh. Seriously though, people like that really get to me! For the lady who asked the question - I know quite a bit about pregnancy so if you ever need advice be sure to email me, I'd be glad to talk to you!
    I only do that when they ask about abortion cuz you always have a chance of getting pregnant and they chose to have sex so they should stand up and take responsibility for their actions and not just do the easy way out.
    Everyone is raised differently. Some people are raised with open minds and some are raised to believe whatever their parents or other people around them have told them. It's unfortunate because teens are still growing and learning and basically anything can happen. Especially if they're uneducated in some areas like sex for example. The only thing they can do is learn from their experiences. That's all anyone can do. And people need to learn to be more accepting and positive. Sure, you might be young and pregnant, but as long as you deal with it properly and take responsibility for your actions, there should be no problem. There are lots of young mothers out there who work their butts off in order to support their babies, and there are also lots of older mothers who are way less responsible than some of the young ones but yet they don't get picked on for being a mother, even though they shouldn't be. All you can do is ignore the rude remarks and immaturity and think positive. You're going to have a beautiful baby in only a matter of months and it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks when you're the one who's going to get to enjoy that bundle of joy. Remember though that you do need to work hard to support that baby, but it will be worth it in the end!
    Honestly it's typically from people who have not been in your situation and do not understand. Although, I am not a teen, just a single mom, because my ex walked out on me when I told him I was pregnant and I get that sometimes. Like, '; Why did you have s e x with someone that you were not committed too'; or my favorite ';Don't spread your legs for just anyone then';. I was in a 2 year relationship with my ex... I had no idea he was going to up and leave us. For the most part though all the mommies are really supportive. I would say your best bet is just to not give out your age, that way people do not assume financial status etc. Good luck and my mom was a teen when she had me and totally survived! I think I turned out GREAT! LOL! :)
    I'm just curious.. why do pregnant teens feel the need to tell us they're teens? Why do they always have to specify that they're teens? DOes it make a difference to the question? IF the question is age related then obviously but if not, why? When I start off a question it's never ';Ok so I'm 27 years old and....';. I'm not rude to pregant teens, well I'm as rude to them as I am to anyone, and depending on the question I suppose you could accuse me of being a b*tch, I just never get why they start with their age.





    And I guess to answer your question: Why are people rude to anyone? It's not exclusively teens, believe me. Generally I think people are rude to anyone with a poorly phrased or worded question. It just so happens that teens are the ones that are more likely to mispell a word or use inappropriate grammar/punctuation.





    Just my 2 cents mate, not trying to be rude =D
    who knows? people need to understand that the teen is under enough pressure and she doesn't need to be treated like crap also. i just turn 20 and is having my first baby boy due in September and people still say stuff cuz im so young and got pregnant at 19. i just stop caring what people think and that matter is my family.
    Most of you teens that come on here always make it a point to let everyone know about your young age.... almost like you are proud of it. It's not relevant to post your age. I'm 28 and I don't post my age on all my questions.
    I am so sorry people do that on here its sad really but remember there are some young and immature people on here it is the internet. if you want any advice feel free to email me I will give you what I can with out being a jerk to you! again I am sorry and congrats on your baby on the way!
    First I would like to say that i am 18 and have been married for almost a year. I myself are not sure if I am pregnant right now but i sure feel like it! I personally think that they react in that way because they think that it will make teens stop getting pregnant or, it is what ';they deserve';. I think that it is cruel and that they should really be trying to help out because this is the very reason a lot of teen girls end up pregnant. Lack of education and being too afraid to seek help. Even with me being married I am afraid that if I am pregnant my family is going to turn on me and not want to help. It is a crazy world, and I DEFINITELY feel where you are coming from. Good luck and Congratulations hon!! Let me know how things go!!
    I feel that if a teen who is pregnant is looking for help and answers that they're at least trying, if they didnt care about the child growing in them they wouldnt be asking. People make mistakes so what, there are more teen girls in this world i see taking much better care of their child than 30 year old woman. Age shouldnt matter as long as you love your child
    To be honest it's not just teens, people get stupid answers and judged for anything they say and any question about abortion is just asking for a dispute between users. Teens most likely do get the majority of the scrutiny, but people assume things. I would suggest not stating your age, you will most likely get better responses, plus this is the pregnancy section. 99% of us are hormonal and have crazy days.
    People will discriminate because it's sad to see pregnant teens..if you want a good advice don't state your age it will change the picture trust me im a teen and i know it i never state age because of that.
    Why advertise that you're a pregnant teen? If you're really after advice and not attention it would be irrelevant.
    Some people are ignorant and like to put people down. But I've got mean responses to questions before too so its not just pregnant teens! You know your situation though, and its not up to anybody else to judge anybody on here. If they don't want to answer the question, they shouldn't be on here. Like when guys say rude things to questions about pregnancy or trying to conceive, they don't have a clue what its like to be pregnant!! Hopefully more people will start answering kindly and the rude ones will find something better to do with their time than make up smart a** remarks to girls who already have a lot going on! Good luck with your pregnancy!
    I'd stop sharing your age, personally. It's irrelevant and your answers will be nicer. All pregnant people experience similar problems, so that would be my best suggestion.





    Good luck with everything.
    because people are hateful and they like to judge when they dont know your situation. just remember that although other people are ignorant you dont have to be. make sure you get the proper care and ask the questions you need without mentioning your age unless its pertinent to the question. youll get the answers you need and people will just have to learn to keep their hateful opinions to themselves. because you didnt ask what they thought of your age now did ya? lol
    people nowadays think that its wrong to be a pregnant teen.....i have nothing against it as long as the baby get cared for properly and that's all that should matter not how old you are...i completely agree with you...and im sure that teens aren't planning to get pregnant it just happens and you're not a whore or **** you are a human being....until they start calling grown women a whore and a **** because they get pregnant i will not understand EVER..
    Possibly because you should still be in school, and not out getting pregnant.





    Look at how you write. You don't write like someone who should be teaching a baby things...How do you expect your child to get through school if you didn't finish, yourself? How are you or your child EVER going to make a decent living? (and don't go saying that your fianc茅 will support you....we ALL know where that leads!)

    I'm an aspiring teen writer, do you have any tips or advice for me, thanks so much!?

    i'm also an aspiring teen writer, I set aside a certain amount of time everyday for writing once I have a good idea. If and when you get an agent, you have to remember not to let them talk down to you, they need to know that you're not a little kid. and whatever happens, dont take rejections and criticisim personally, use it to make your writing better. You may also consider sending a test into the Institute of Children's Literature (dont let the name fool you, it can teach you alot about writing for teens and adults too) they only take in students that they think have potential, and you are assigned your own personal instructor who is a published author. I'm a student there, and my writing has improved amazingly since I began the course.


    Hope the helped!I'm an aspiring teen writer, do you have any tips or advice for me, thanks so much!?
    Tips on plot





    I will start first by going into plot-engines. A plot-engine is what gets the plot up and running and keeps it in motion. There are 2 main ones.





    Event Driven : These are plots that advance because of a sequence of events. They change about everything included in your story-the setting, action, mood, tone, and your character's reaction. One thing to note is that your protagonist doesn't need to undergo any drastic changes.





    Character Driven: The events all spring from ongoing changes within your character. If your character is driven to make things happen, they will probably happen.





    You need plot components to have a good plot. They are problem, complication, and resolution.





    There are 4 main types of problems. Man against society:


    These are the stories in which your protagonist is an individual who sees the world differently from those around him.





    Man against man : A highly recognizable problem is the tale of two rivals. You create two dynamic characters who are totally different.





    Man aginst himself: These are more complex, and probably requires a good understanding of psychology. These are the inner struggles of a protagonist who must decide upon a particular path.





    Man against nature: These are the stories where the protagonist has to dive to the bottom of a trench, climb a mountain, defeat the animal, or survive a diasaster.


    Complications


    Complication is what make plots interesting. It's not enough to just have a problem, you ned to have complications ot make it worse. Keep 2 basic things in mind.


    1. Things must look bad as they can possibly be, and then get worse.


    2. Complication create change.


    Resolution


    It is the way you decide to wrap up your plot. There are 3 main resolutions.


    Protagonsit wins: This is the most popular, because he is the main one the audience has been pulling for throughout.


    Protagonist loses: This takes the audience in a different turn. You need to make sure even in defeat, the protagonist has become a better person.


    Antagonist wins: The audience isn't gonna accept the bad guy winning unless he goes some sort of transformation, maybe shedding his evil persona.


    Plot Requirements


    It needs direction, changes in points, and obviously, suspense. It also needs a clear beginning, middle, and end.





    Tricks


    Multiple viewpoint, narrated from more than one person


    In Medias Res, meaning in the middle on things, because it starts off right in the middle of action. The reader is yanked in and doesn't get a chance to really come up for air, and that's when you throw in a few chapters that 'back-fill'; the events.


    Your plot has to make sense. 3 examples of bad illogical plots are:





    The Idiot Plot, when everyone acts like an idiot, like in the horror movies where they split up and get picked off one by one.


    Nothing that just happens for no reason, author convienence.


    Rabbit out of hat: Related to author concience, it is totally unexplainable and no reason for it to happen.





    Sorry if It's long. Good LuckI'm an aspiring teen writer, do you have any tips or advice for me, thanks so much!?
    Where would you like your aspirations to lead you? Are you interested in getting articles published in magazines or online, or would you like to write books that will be published? Is this a hobby or a career path? My advice is to really conceptualize where you hope your aspirations will lead you, then choose a path. If your goal is to write for smaller publications or as a hobby, you'll take different paths then if you intend to write a best selling book one day.





    For general advice, find a mentor. Someone that has already accomplished what you seek to accomplish. Also, understand the behind the scenes business aspect of the publishing industry. Marketing, media preparation, and public relations are often over looked, but if you intend to make money with your passion then you'll need to familiarize yourself with these aspects of the business.





    Perhaps you aren't at that level yet, and you are more interested in learning some basics on how or what to write, but I hope I've at least given you something to think about.
    What helps me is just jotting down ideas as I listen to music or read other books. By doing that, it opens my horizons and mind to the story Im writing.
    You should try to add a blue sentence to your writing. Like. . .


    ';The cool breeze giving me little bumps that would seem to get larger every wind. The sky, as many colors as could be.';





    Something to get the reader hooked on. Also make a great cover for your writing. . . it will help!!!





    I hope that this helps, and that you lead a great life to become a wonderful and famous writer.
    start of with a life experience or jott down any funny stories!


    or maybe write about your fav animal or your fav hobby!


    i hope i helped(:
    definitely practice a lot. write whatever you like. personally, i like writing ';memory snapshots'; - you write about one moment in your life, a moment that was anywhere from 1-30 minutes (not any longer than that). describe it in full detail. it only has to be 1-3 pages, not that long. it will help you hone your skill as a writer. buy books about teen publishing if you want to do that sort of thing - but start small with entering stories/poetry into newspapers and magazines.

    What do you think about the fact that many Easterners come here for sex advice that any Western teen knows?

    And then proceed to tell us how great their society is?


    Geez, if it wasn't for us - most wouldn't even know 'where to put it' to make a baby!


    If we stopped giving sex advice to them, do you think we could halt global overpopulation?What do you think about the fact that many Easterners come here for sex advice that any Western teen knows?
    I don't see how sex has anything to do with the greatness of a society, unless the majority rule is the society you refer to. All Lemmings understand this rule. Education will halt overpopulation, not ignorance.
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