Need some advice for a teen (girlfriend)?

ok well here it goes im 16 and i just got back together with my girlfriend we have been dating since last year about 8 months and we broke up a month before school ended, so 3 weeks into summer you kno how teens like to party and stuff, well she had sex with this guy, when she got drunk with her friends at this party and after we broke up like we still talked, then when i found out a day later when she had sex with that guy every since like idk i just cant get it outta my head and she told me how it wasnt long she only had sex with him for like 5 mins, which im guessing it was like 10- 15mins, but she told him to stop becuz she just couldn't do it, i guess she meant she couldn't do that with him becuz of me, but idk like i dont kno what to do becuz like we got back together 3 weeks ago and i dont think about this when im with her but like it tears me up and idk what to do about it and yea i talked to her about it before but it still doesnt make it like all better lol if thats how you wana put it but idk what to do becuz when im not arond her and im by myself it makes me so mad and for her to just **** some guy she knows whos like 17 or 18 which he goes to my damn school, like just becuz her friends ended up messin with some guy to but idk i just need some advice like what to do so i can just get this **** outta my head wow and the funny thing is its 7:00 clock in the morning and im typing this before i drive to school lol yea this is how much i need to stop thinking about this if anybody can help plz do Need some advice for a teen (girlfriend)?
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theres nothing you can do dude. she made a mistake. a big one. but she technically wasnt with you so its not like she did anything wrong. sure it was slutty but shes with you now and as long as she doesnt do that sh1t when shes with you then its fine.
either forgive her


or break up with her


you can't be messed up over this stuff and remain together it won't work


forgiving is a lot harder and you're young but who knows it might be worth it
THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU!


THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU!


THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU!


THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU!



can you filter our the 'like' and 'idk' and teenage **** for me please?





Grow up! Everyone is free to have sex with whoever....you kids and your immature problems!
sure it is something bad but you should move on , and focus in your study and be closer to God


sex at this age and before marriage is a sin
DON'T KNOW HOW TO HELP YOU THERE!
wow ur really in a jam here. well im a 14 year old and i've had my fair share of bf's and im quite experienced in problems in realationships and the only thing i can think of is to detox. talk to her about it and tell her exactly how u feel if your still having these thoughts after this then maybe she isnt the girl for you becoz everyone deserves to be happy and your no exception so just tell her how you feel and see what happens if it doesnt work out then im sure u'll find a girl rite for you.





good luck hope it helped
Talk to this girl and tell her what she did really gets to you. I've learned that the only best way to sort things out ever, is to talk. Tell her you never expected this from her; for her to let some other boy take advantage of her body straight after you two broke up. Let her know that you're with her because you love her (or whatever) but if she did this again it would have to be the end of everything because you don't want a girlfriend who people would see as a slut. Say you want a respectable girlfriend. Hope i helped.
Look ppl make mistakes, an this was her's. the point is not that she got with someone ekse the point is if you are going to make this work you have to let go of the past. She Messed up can you forgive her is the ?. So you need to think of that.ppl do dum thing all the time and even though we wish we could we cant take them back. I've been were your at except i was married to the man. He said it didn't mean anything i had to forgive and for get before we could even began to make it would. GOOD LUCK i know its hard
wow, that looks tough.


but you can't blame her





talk about it with her





and i guess you could start a new hobby


or something that will keep you busy so you won't be thinking of it anymore.


and soon you'll find out you already forgot it.





well, most people do that, and i've kinda tried it.





and oh, if you forgot it, you'll surely find someone new :)
Ooh thats a hard one. You guys had been together a while but this happened when you guys werent together so you cant blame her, she was single and drunk and maybe she was upset from the break up too? Being single, drunk, confused and upset while her friend was getting with some guy would of made her feel worse so maybe she just wanted to feel happy for a moment so just decided to get with that guy. **** happens, just sit her down and have a big chat about it all.