Ok, I'm only 7 weeks pregnant, but I have pretty much gotten over the shock of things. I have a plan for school, and for other things. I thought I had everything planned out, but now I found a problem. You see, my parents have been divorsed since I was like 6, and I've never really been close to my dad. Well, he keeps asking me when I can come to visit him in California. Noramlly, I wouldn't mind, I mean who would pass up a week at the beach, but he doesn't know about the baby, and I really don't think he will take it well. I have to go next week(june 3rd), but since Im still in my 1st tri, I get sick a lot, mostly in the evening. I'm just not sure how Im going to be able to hide my pregnancy! Please give me some advice! I really don't think I have the courage to tell him!!!!!!Advice for a pregnant teen!?
don't hide it from him. he really has no right to be angry with you since he hasn't really been there for you. i would call him and tell him now though. that was he has a week to get used to the idea instead of finding out when you get there.Advice for a pregnant teen!?
You should still be small when you go. Just have a good time and tell him you have a cold and that your gaining weight. By the time you get home, you may only look like you have a pudge at your belly.
Congratulations on th baby. I think you are a bit young, but who knows. Your father may not be too happy with it, but he needs to know.who knows he may even help you with it. don't be scared. He's your Father, and he loves you. He may be mad, but i guarantee he's just nerbous or afraid for you. You'll be okay ;)
Have your mom tell him but you're not going to be able to hide it.
tell him ...... sit him down and tell him the truth, you should not have been having unprotected sex anyway... now you have the burdon of tellin him i wish u luck and write updates
get a job
Hello., You never said how old you were. But Im guessing pretty young. You are planning on having a baby, and becoming a mother which is a major job in itself and you cannot tell your dad your pregnant..perhaps are you afraid of his opinion of you? If so as a young mother...you will have to get over that, because being a mother is hard enough, but being a teen mother people are expecting you to fail. This being said, you should own up to your responsibilty. You are taking on a very adult issue, and making the best of it! You can either go up and make this a positive learning experiance or you can keep on the same path and worsen your life! The very first step to mother hood, is RESPOSIBILITY. Be the best person you can be, and dont deny your baby! Take good care of your health and learn as much as possible during these few months. It will go by slow, but in reality your life is going 100miles per hour and this time next year you will have someone depending solely on you! Talk to your father yourself, it would be very grown up!
sooner or later he will know. What about telling him before you go there, or finding a cute grandpa shirt.
well you have to tell him or get someone to tell him. Anything to let him know. you won't be able to hide it. but you only have a small bump about now. so idk tell your mom to tell him for you.
the best advice i can give you is to tell him the truth. he's going to find out sometime. if he yells and totally never talks to you again, he won't support you and that's even worst. you have all my luck.
Don't go on an airplane-your baby could be harmed.My aunt's friend had to have an abortion because she flew on an airplane during pregnancy.
As for your father, you're just going to have to tell him.Better now than when you actually have the baby.If you're a bit scared of his reaction, ask someone else to tell him for you-or you could at least talk over the phone.Calmly explain to him that your baby could be harmed on a flight and he could come visit you.And also explain that you're pregnant now, and there's nothing you can do.You can't change what happened in the past, and besides, having a baby is a miracle.
Good luck with your pregnancy and your father =D
Adoption.
your mom will find out
Being a father myself the only thing I can really tell you is to give him a chance. I love my daughter more than anything in the world and there is nothing that she could do that would change that. Tell him before you get there that way he has time to think it over and decide how to talk to you about it. Unfortunately us fathers tend to open our mouths and just say what we are thinking when we are put on the spot. I have found that it is best before I talk to my daughter if I have time to first think of what I want to say and how I want to say it. If not if it can be taken the wrong way then that is how she ends up taking it even though I don't mean it like that.
You have to tell him. I mean, he'll find out eventually and i think he'd want to know that he has a grand kid. It will def. be a shock to him but he will have to accept it.
Well if you dont wanna tall him then you should have someone else do it that what i did with my mom. But with me (parents divorced 2) i was actually more scared to tell my mom. My dad was very understanding...we are all people and we sometimes make mistakes....so good luck
you can't hide it forever, eventually he'll find out even if it's not while you're visiting. Ask your mum to tell him for you.
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